When is it too soon to start making friends when you know your current relationship is over? I think having friends to flirt with is okay, although its not something I would ever do if I was in a committed relationship. I know my relationship is over, so I'm not wasting anytime denying myself the opportunity to make a few flirty new friends, hopefully when I'm available one of them will turn into my next serious relationship.
Oct 13 2009, 04:37:37 PM ET
I'm married but she wants separation, the grass is looking pretty green over here!
I met the man of my dreams, exceeded everything I ever dreamed of. His wife didn't want him, made him pay with gifts to have sex without even the intimacy of kissing. They had separate dwellings for several months. She gave him no attention unless she needed money. We connected something FIERCE! I have never felt a man's spirit so deeply in my soul. He was pretty excited, too, and told his parting wife, who hadn't wanted him for years before the separation, that he met me and I tripped his trigger. She changed overnight, and he wanted to save his marriage. Now my heart is in shambles. You never know how you're going to connect or affect a woman, so do all the "friends" a great favor, and wait until you're divorced.
Oct 13 2009, 11:34:03 PM ET
I'm married but she wants separation, the grass is looking pretty green over here!
That sucks that he did an about face. What the hell. Regarding my own situation, my wife can't do anything to fix our relationship. Its just not going to happen. I didn't know her well enough before we got married, she was always mum on everything. Now that I know her, I have lost a great deal of respect for her, and it makes for a very bitter relationship. There may be someone for her, but its not me. I was commited to the relationship, but now that she wants a separation, its my way out. I fully intend on finishing the divorce papers and going through with it. Meanwhile the friends I meet online just bolster my conviction to divorce and build my confidence that there is someone better for me. I will not be dating or sleeping around until I'm divorced, but I will be making contacts. Divorces take a long time when there is a house and kids involved. Besides, I never had so much fun before than flirting online. To all the ladies who take flirtations too close to the heart, I'm sorry. Just remember, all good things take time.
Oct 26 2009, 10:31:03 AM ET
I'm married but she wants separation, the grass is looking pretty green over here!
When is it too soon to start making friends when you know your current relationship is over? I think having friends to flirt with is okay, although its not something I would ever do if I was in a committed relationship. I know my relationship is over, so I'm not wasting anytime denying myself the opportunity to make a few flirty new friends, hopefully when I'm available one of them will turn into my next serious relationship.
Nov 03 2009, 08:44:05 AM ET
I'm married but she wants separation, the grass is looking pretty green over here!
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Regarding my own situation, my wife can't do anything to fix our relationship. Its just not going to happen. I didn't know her well enough before we got married, she was always mum on everything. Now that I know her, I have lost a great deal of respect for her, and it makes for a very bitter relationship. There may be someone for her, but its not me. I was commited to the relationship, but now that she wants a separation, its my way out. I fully intend on finishing the divorce papers and going through with it. Meanwhile the friends I meet online just bolster my conviction to divorce and build my confidence that there is someone better for me. I will not be dating or sleeping around until I'm divorced, but I will be making contacts. Divorces take a long time when there is a house and kids involved. Besides, I never had so much fun before than flirting online. To all the ladies who take flirtations too close to the heart, I'm sorry. Just remember, all good things take time.
