My weekend was great. I learned some new techniques to help people with their lives. I helped one guy with approaching people, and another on calling girls back. It didn't take long. They helped me with hesitation and something else. I forget. That happens sometimes, the problem is just so foreign it's hard to remember what the hell it was. Once I helped one person and afterward they denied ever having the problem. Imagine trying to get paid for that!

Today I used the skills to help find out a girls strongest values and feelings. Like reaching into her and discovering the real her, that even she wasn't aware of. It's a beautiful honor to connect like that.

I think professionally I will be using this a lot on other people for ptsd, shyness, and trauma. On the positive side I will help other people do what they already do well, but even better.

I had another lunch date. I should talk about this. Dating isn't about being perfect and trying to lead to marriage, or keep that person as a bf or gf. It's about discovering the person you're with. How do you discover someone, really understand who they are, when you have an agenda? Whatever they say or do will get filtered. How you see, hear and think of them gets skewed. And after you're "invested" in the relationship the reality of who they "are" will seep in. 

 So I had another lunch date.  We didn't eat. We had a great conversation. I'm starting to like her. I already liked how she looks. But I'm liking what's on the inside too. So, we'll see.

Then I went and got food. On the way back to work a waitress from nearby was on her way to work. She was flirty. I left her a candy bar for a tip last week. It was a $3 gourmet chocolate, for to-go food. Don't give me any crap about tipping, I used to be a waiter. Anyhow, it was damn good chocolate. And, I wasn't expecting flirty.  

In the office I stopped briefly, or what I thought would be a short time, at a cowokers desk. She kept me talking for at least 30 minutes. About everything. 

Something happens when you change profound pieces of personality. Your world just changes. I'm curious and excited to see what the future holds.