This is just a thought:  I know in my early years some of the closest friends I had were of the male species.  I wouldn't have traded them for the world, in fact I haven't had friends like that since.  I find I have more in common with men than I do women.  Not sure why but it might be due to the fact that I like to talk about computers and the newest gadgets that come out, fishing, shooting pool and my new found excitement in my life, Football.

Of course I am completely female, love being a woman and am very attracted to the male species. lol

But lately I have a lack of male friends in my life.  I know that it is partly due to the fact that I won't let myself become friends with a married man, or even someone who has a special woman in his life.. in respect for her and their relationship.  I know I don't hold her any threat but I don't even want to make her feel insecure in any way.

Ok maybe now it wouldn't be hard to be just my friend.  But picture me at 130 lbs after my gastric bypass surgery.  Can you still be my friend?

Just curious...  Would like to here what you think.

Deboria